Narcissistic Bully...and a Coward, Too

I'm angry and I have every right to express my feelings, even if you don't agree. And you don't get to take that right from me just because you disagree with my opinion.

You are a narcissist through and through. According to the U.S. National Library of Medicine, Narcissistic Personality Disorder is defined as "An enduring pattern of grandiose beliefs and arrogant behavior together with an overwhelming need for admiration and a lack of empathy for (and even exploitation of) others." (https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmedhealth/PMHT0024871/) 

In an article from the U.S. National Library of Medicine, found on the MedlinePlus.gov website, a person with this disorder will "react to criticism with rage, shame or humiliation"; "take advantage of other people to achieve his or her own goals"; "have excessive feelings of self-importance"; "have unreasonable expectations of favorable treatment"; and "need constant attention and admiration". (https://medlineplus.gov/ency/article/000934.htm) And those are just some of the symptoms. Funny thing is that they all describe you...to a Tee.

Not only are you a narcissist, but you're a bully and a coward!! You seem to think the entire world revolves around you; that you just walk into a room and everybody is supposed to applaud and be grateful that you're in their presence. Jeez...ego much? Guess what!! It doesn't work that way!! Not everybody is going to like you, regardless of what you think, and you're just going to have to deal with it. The rest of us deal with it on a daily basis, having others not like us. So what? Big deal!

At least we don't go around throwing tantrums like six year olds, crying that people are lying about us and punishing those who express their negative opinions. "You can't say that about me. Now I'll make sure you don't get to say anything at all. And if you don't agree with me, I'll do the same thing." Why would you do that? Are you not man enough to take the truth when it's thrown at you? That's the stuff of elementary school playgrounds. "You don't like me? Fine, I'll tell everybody you're mean and nobody will play with you. So there!"

You're manipulative and abusive! You spend your time repeatedly picking on others, calling out their faults, and chastising them, in front of others, because they don't like or agree with you. Then you act like you had the right to do it, and expect that others around you are supposed to agree with you. Those are classic signs of a bully!! And we all know that bullies are cowards. Cowards because the second someone stands up to them, they either run and hide, or they try to deflect their behavior as being misinterpreted; or better yet, they put the blame on the victim instead of admitting any wrongdoing of their own.

You're even worse than that, though. Not only do you try to deflect your behavior and place blame where it doesn't belong, but you blatantly lie and say you never did or said whatever it is you're being called out on, even though the proof is staring you in the face. That goes back to the narcissism. You are absolutely unable to accept the fact that you are not as perfect and well-liked as you think you are. So everybody is picking on you, right? WRONG! The thing is, there are some of us who can see beyond your ego, which is HUGE, by the way. We can see that you're a liar, we can see that you're a bullshit artist, and we can see that the only one who's important to you is you.

You can feed me all the lines you want that you're doing what you're doing in an attempt to help me. I know it's all a load of crap. So do a lot of other people...and so do you! The only one you're trying to help is you, and at the expense of everyone else involved. But trust me, it won't last long for you. The reason I know that is because you're bound to screw up...in a major way...and it's going to come back to bite you in the ass. I know it'll happen because I've had personal experience with someone just like you, and his fall from grace was not pretty.

So I'll tell you what I told him. Put on your big-boy pants, get your head on straight, stop the lying and manipulation, take responsibility for your actions, act like the man you're supposed to be, and do the right thing for those involved before the shit really hits the fan. And for pity's sake, stop whining like a toddler who's missed his nap, you big crybaby. You chose this life, now you get to live with whatever comes with it...good or bad. So suck it up, Buttercup, because life is about to get real and you're at the center of it all.

Until next time...peace to all.